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Allan Shedlin's avatar

The best of all for me is from "South Pacific:"

"You've Got To Be Carefully Taught."

(And best wishes to your mom, my elementary & high school classmate.)

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

Thanks Allan! That is on our list of ones to watch.

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Sophie S.'s avatar

Love it. I've been getting into 19th century writing myself and I can relate to this. Some of the stuff is horrifying and probably didn't age well, but other stuff is just such down to earth solid advice.

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Ros Barber's avatar

Excellent! I would like more in this series.

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

Thanks so much Ros! I love to hear it. I'll do a sequel in a bit.

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Linda Goor Nanos's avatar

Looks like a concept for your next book. So much fertile ground to explore. How about South Pacific, cockeyed optimist and you've got to be carefully taught (to hate)?

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

That is on our list to watch! Thanks Linda

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Wendy Varley's avatar

Funny and true!

"I simply remember my favourite things and then I don't feel so bad," was pretty much drummed into me as a child! An earworm and a life lesson.

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

Ha! So true. (Though I have different favorite things than she does. Woolen mittens are itchy)

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Anna Campbell's avatar

I'm curious if you believe in the "fake it till you make it" philosophy of Anna's. That by pretending to be brave, the courage will follow. I ask bc this approach didn't work for you in The Year of Living Biblically.

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

Thanks Anna! And tell me more! I felt it worked sometimes during that project. Maybe not 100 percent all the time, but I do find it helpful.

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Kathleen Joy  Anderson's avatar

And after all, you weren’t going for perfect, were you?

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Anna Campbell's avatar

That's really great. I can't seem to fool myself into believing I'm brave, my body knows the whole time that irs terrified. 😅 But it fools other people, so that's something.

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Gary Rudoren's avatar

AJ - one of my favorite lines, and life philosophies from THE MUSIC MAN is when Harold Hill says to a crestfallen, Opie; "Kid, I always think there's a band."... I do think it's a great way to walk through life.

Of course, also, I'm partial as well to the enthusiastic use of my namesake Gary, Indiana.

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

Thanks Gary Indiana! And I'm so sorry I've been a bad correspondent. A lot of it is because I've been spending time with my mom, who wasn't feeling well.

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Dana Sacks's avatar

Those musicals are the best kind of warm blanket. Fun fact: Mrs Partridge was my mother in law’s sister’s best friend.

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A.J. Jacobs's avatar

That is a fun fact!

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